Hi Friends,
I think mindfulness is something we (we as in most millennial’s) all struggle with these days. #WhoCanRelate
I think we can attribute that to the constants in our life, social media, digital dating, high speed everything.
I sat in my car the other evening and watched a pedestrian cross a busy intersection with his head down the entire time texting, he didn’t look up once. I was terrified for him…and I was safely tucked in my car. I thought, “What was so urgent that he is walking more blindly than a literal blind man?”
Truthfully, I’ve been “that person” walking around halls at the office busily texting or scrolling Instagram to busy my mind. In the grocery line checking out chatting on the phone while missing out on the opportunity to chat with a kind soul. Making the assistant at the doctors office feel invisible because I’d rather double click pictures than take a few moment’s to see how her day was going.
So, I’ve been challenging myself to put my phone down more. Minimizing screen time to hopefully relearn life a little more grounded and aware. To avoid grabbing this addictive device the second my eyes open and friends, let me tell you, I feel like my quality of life is so much more rich these days. I am falling in love with life that I had all around me. I am falling in love with myself, for real for real, not for Instagram pictures, not for validation of my internet friends, but on a deep level that’s intimate for me.
I still capture pictures of little things that make me smile, but I save them for later to reflect on instead of sharing immediately with IG stories or feeling the need to edit colors and post. I save it so I can remain present in the moment with the experience and whomever I am sharing it with. Again, the quality of life goes up.
Little things…finding thrifted Buddha’s that made me smile instantly ~ “Hear no, see no, speak no evil”
Little things…eating my nourish bowl in stillness, taking my time to taste the flavors, experience the textures and not be distracted by my phone.
{Peanut butter & jelly protein oatmeal, hemp seeds, chia seeds, cacao nibs, ground flax}
Little things…waking up and taking an impromptu spin class for the first time in years to challenge myself mentally and physically. Most of all, have FUN and do a workout for my soul, not aesthetics.
The little things…like finding Winifred at a local farmers market. I literally know all of the words to Hocus Pocus. Who else is a 90’s baby?
The important little things…like spending time with a close girlfriend, listening to live music and enjoying each others company at the fall festival.
Taking more time to slow down and just be.
With love,
Ash